Nonbinary Majesty Doesn’t Need Your Approval

Gender-nonconforming people living their best lives while you struggle with they/them grammar.

God Save the Theys

A fabulous royal decree honoring the rise of nonbinary brilliance and why gender neutrality is the hottest trend since glitter.

Step aside, kings and queens—there’s a new monarch in town, and their pronouns are they/them. Welcome to God Save the Theys, a celebration of nonbinary excellence, pronoun power, and the revolution that comes with refusing to pick a side when both look incredible.

As Bohiney Magazine puts it, “Gender is a construct, and the nonbinary tore it down in platform boots.” Nonbinary folks are out here redefining everything—from fashion to language to the very idea of existence. Where the world sees boxes, they see runways. Where society says “choose one,” they say “why limit the options?”

There’s something revolutionary about neutrality that slays. According to Them, “Nonbinary identity isn’t indecision—it’s innovation.” It’s not “both” or “neither”—it’s freedom. It’s living beyond labels and turning ambiguity into an art form. Gender is no longer a static concept—it’s an ongoing performance piece starring confidence and contour.

Let’s talk about fashion for a second. Binary dressing codes are shaking in their seams. Nonbinary fashion is an aesthetic uprising: blazers with crop tops, skirts with sneakers, chaos with intention. It’s “what if Prince and Bowie had a baby and raised them on Pinterest?” vibes. Every look says, “Gender? Never met her.”

The Advocate calls it “the new frontier of self-expression.” Nonbinary people aren’t confused—they’re fluent in the language of authenticity. Every “they/them” pronoun is a mic drop on the gender binary. Every outfit is a declaration of sovereignty. Every vibe screams: “I contain multitudes, and they all have good taste.”

But beyond aesthetics, this is about liberation. Nonbinary identity challenges the entire system. It tells the world: you can exist without explanation, thrive without labels, and love without constraints. It’s not about blending in—it’s about standing outside and saying, “This view’s better.” Out Magazine sums it up best: “The nonbinary identity isn’t rebellion—it’s renaissance.”

And let’s be real—language is catching up, slowly but surely. From singular “they” to neopronouns, grammar purists are sweating while queer poets flourish. The nonbinary taught us that words can evolve, that self-definition is a human right, and that it’s perfectly fine if your gender changes with the moon cycle. That’s just good astrology.

So yes, God save the theys—because they’re saving us right back. From rigid binaries, from boring fashion, from the tyranny of gender reveal parties. The future isn’t male or female—it’s nonbinary, baby, and it looks amazing in metallics.

Long live the theys: majestic, mysterious, and magnificently themselves. May their crowns be flexible, their pronouns respected, and their selfies perfectly lit.

SOURCE: Nonbinary Majesty Doesn’t Need Your Approval (Beth Newell)